For some the planning of who sits where can be a little fraught, so here is a few pointers:
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Traditionally the focal point of the reception is the top table. This is usually a long table with a specific seating arrangement (see diagram)
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If one or more of the parents in the wedding party are divorced and remarried, the step parents can be easily incorporated into the table plan (see diagram)
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If there are many attendants, only the Best Man and the Chief Bridesmaid should be on the top table. Ushers are rarely put at the top table
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If you do not like the idea of a traditional top table, why not have a round table. You can follow the traditional seating pattern and it gives the added advantage of everyone being able to speak to each other and not just the people next to them.
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It is useful to have the table plan pre-printed and displayed on an easel outside the reception room so people can see which table they are sitting at as they enter the room. It should fit into your overall decoration theme
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Children should be seated with a parent
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Couples should be put on the same table as each other but they do not have to be put side by side
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Avoid splitting up groups of friends in order to "mix up" the people around the wedding party. Our experience shows that people want to relax at weddings and whilst not adverse to meeting new people, they do like to catch up with their friends and avoid too much forced, polite conversation
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>You will need a separate plan to give to the caterers. Mark on this any special diets, allergies and children's meals
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Rather than just have table numbers, why not pick a theme that is common to you as a couple. We have seen successful weddings where tables have been named after countries from which the couple's friends come from, famous poets, musicals, Hollywood films and holiday destinations the couple have shared (though not all these themes at the same time!)
