To state the obvious, there are either two brides or two grooms so the number of speeches needs to be considered.
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There are no rules to be broken here in terms of etiquette so you decide on who would speak - think about who is closest to you, who are the best speakers and take into consideration who would want to speak
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Often it is important that both families have a chance to speak. The rule stands on length of speeches so do try and limit those speaking - the rule of four maximum speakers is still a good guide. Perhaps both fathers can speak or both mothers (never all four though!) or one each interspersed with the Groom's/Bride's speeches
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We have been to ceremonies where there have been four speeches: one from each Groom and one from each Best Man. You may have decided to have many attendants - decide on who is best to speak
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All the guidelines above on speeches are just as relevant. Remember, keep it short, keep it relevant, keep it clean and keep it sincere
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There are no rules on toasts either but the final toast should still be "To the happy couple!"
